Long-Distance

When it comes to Long-Distance situations... and you happen to be the one to stay behind...

It is so difficult to find the balance between not putting too much pressure on the other person but at the same time being able to control your need for connection.

The balance between understanding where the other person is at and not arguing with them about unimportant incidents.

The balance between giving them the freedom to thrive but also reminding them that you exist.

The balance between making them realize that you do not want to control them, instead you are just interested in what they do daily.

And lastly, your need to know if they are ok might not necessarily be their priority..

When their schedules are so busy, they cannot even breath, these random texts you unexpectedly receive are worth every difficult moment. Because in those moments, your smile shines so bright that nothing else matters.

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