Sometimes Good People....

Sometimes good people act in irrational ways. They make dreadful decisions, say the wrong things and make mistakes.
This is the very essense of being human.

However, how they deal with these situations is what makes the difference.

First of all...,

Do they understand how their behaviour or words have affected another? Do they reflect on themsleves first?

If so, what do they do about it?

Do they try to fix it or let it go?

Do they have a conversation with each other to resolve the argument or conflict?

Do they apologize?

Do they try to make it up to the other person?

Do they care enough to put their ego aside and accept their fault?

Relationships are never easy. They are not supposed to be anyway.

When two people decide to stick together they need to listen to one another, to adapt accordingly, sacrifice and commumicate to make it work.
They need to step up to their standard, choose wisely, make mistakes, learn and try again.

At the end of the day, what really matters are the difficult conversations you have with one another.

No one really cares how your relationship ended.
What they care about is how you made it work for 30,40,50,60 years and nothing was able to torn you apart!

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