Do You Forgive Yourself?

Do you forgive yourself?

• When Failing?
• When Hurting?
• When Disappointing?

Isn't this the most difficult part of forgiveness?

We tend to forgive others easily, or at least we try. We try to let go of everything that is holding us back and move on with a clear mindset.

But what we don't really pay attention to, is the fact that what we really struggle to forgive OURSELVES.

It is much easier to forgive someone else but yourself.

• Why did I allow this to happen to me?
• How did I allow this person to lie to me?
• How did I not understand that this person was deceiving me?
• How could I be so stupid and naive?

Growing up often comes with virtues such as knowledge and maturity, thus making us capable of understanding and identifying people that try to hurt or deceive us.

What we don't really understand though, is the fact that, if someone is behaving this way for many years, has definitely mastered his 'art'. Making that person very difficult to read and identify their true colours.

You cannot control other people's actions, behaviors and words. You cannot control their intentions either, no matter how careful you are. Therefore, trust your intuition and be soft on yourself. You are allowed to make mistakes but what you are not allowed is beating yourself up for things you cannot control

Learn to forgive yourself in the process of loving you!

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