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2023 - Abundance [of Love]



At the end of  December 2021, I decided on no more new year resolutions. I assigned a word in my new year and decided to work towards achieving it. Serenity! 

Through this process, 2022 taught me:

January:
  • New Beginnings are always exciting
  • There is a difference between loneliness and solitude 
February:
  • It is ok to be misunderstood. Not everyone has the capacity to see your potential or vision.
March:
  • Mental Health is important
  • If your work environment does not help you grow, find a way to "escape"
  • Your thoughts do not dictate who you are
  • Quieting your mind and thoughts takes a lot of work
  • Facing yourself and insecurities requires a lot of bravery 
April:
  • The more you expand your friend circle, the more fulfilled you will be
  • Travelling has a magical way of making you vulnerable 
  • Travelling has a magical way of bringing you closer to the people you travel with
  • Learn to slowly open your heart.
May:
  • Not everyone in your circle will be growing or maturing on the same pace as you do.
  • Some close friends will label you as "toxic". And that is ok. Not everyone has to be part of your journey, not everyone needs to understand you and it is not your job to convince them so.
June:
  • When an opportunity comes along, take the risk. It is worth it.
  • When the atmosphere in a room is cold, watch some tik-tok.
July:
  • Being happy with your friend's happiness, doubles your joy and fulfillment.
  • Less is more!
  • Holding hands with fingers intertwined, is another level of connection.
  • Be patient. Be patient. Be patient.
August:
  • A phone call can change everything. 
  • Two pink roses make a difference.
  • It is possible to be in the same room with someone you admire
  • It is possible to land a job you have never believed possible.
  • Fingers intertwined does not mean a meaningful connection. Not everyone that portrays some interest in you, is truthfully interested. Some people will never be able to handle you.
September:
  • Mistakes are part of your learning process. 
  • It is possible for a masculine to make you feel safe
  • Being more feminine is not bad after all.
  • A human being can have the ability to quieten and calm your mind.
  • Wherever you see darkness, bring some light and colour!
October:
  • Your innocent actions can have a negative impact on the people you care about. 
  • Some people will not have the strength to say: "Your actions hurt me". Their behaviour will communicate that to you instead.
  • It is possible to zone out when he is looking in your eyes.
  • When he is serious, be silly and make him smile.
November:
  • People test you all the time.
  • An unexpected dinner and short conversations during a flight, can help you discover another person's world.
  • Never judge a book by its cover. Do not believe the gossip you hear about other people. Get to know them first before shaping an opinion. 
December:
  • Draw some smiling faces :) in someone's music score.
  • If you can help calm another's mind, do so.
  • People will hurt you. Some intentionally and others unintentionally. 
  • Demand to be treated with respect and dignity.
  • Another person's choice does not dictate your worth.

If Serenity is about letting people go, allow it. 

You should strive for the one that dares to come into your life 
and is brave enough to stay by your side. 

2023 - Abundance [of love]

© 2023

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